This past week I have been thinking alot about love, and my view on it. As I have said before what scares me the most is the I am scared of choosing the wrong one. A friend of mine stated, "that if there is only one person for you then it is somewhat taking from free will." So as I thought on this I realized that he is write and so have other friends that have said this. I have come to the realization that love has an aspect of choice in it. There are many people that you can love and that are compatible with each other. However you in your life chose to be with this person. The ideology that Christians state that there is only one person for you I believe has caused a lot of divorce. Let me explain the marriage is getting rough and hard well I guess I messed up and this is not the right one, there person then get a divorce to find the right one. This is wrong of course because marriage is hard and it takes work. My parents have had hard times, even thought they were going ot split every now and then, however they have made it work. They reason being is that they chose to make it work. So is there really only one person for you, or is it that there are many people that God has for you, and you chose to be with just one?
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